Pets and Older Adults

Dear Dr. LeCrone:

My father died a few months ago and, since his death, I’ve noticed that my mother seems to be staying at home a lot more and avoiding company. My mom is used to being a caregiver and now that my dad is gone, she says she doesn’t feel needed anymore. I’m worried about her because she seems so lonely and nothing seems to help lift her spirits. Is there anything that I can do for her?
L.B. from Texas

Dear L.B.:

Your mother’s behavior is not unusual for anyone who has lost a spouse or loved one. Encourage her to express her feelings of sadness and reminisce with you, which will allow her to share her grief and loss. I might also suggest that you talk with your mother about the possibility of adopting a pet. Research studies show that pets can actually enhance the quality of life of older adults and positively impact their physical and emotional well-being. Pet ownership offers older adults the chance to be caregivers and to feel less lonely and isolated. Caring for a pet allows an older individual to feel needed, and will often boost self-esteem and give purpose to life. Pets can help older adults deal with feelings of grief, loss, loneliness or sadness. Although a pet cannot “talk back” to an owner, animals truly have a way of communicating love and affection.

Research in the area of animal-assisted therapy (AAT) shows the therapeutic benefit of pets and some studies reveal that pets can actually help lower the blood pressure of their owners. The right pet can make a good companion for older adults, providing a source of comfort, companionship and even laughter.

When considering pet ownership for an older adult, it is important to think about the age, size, and breed of an animal. Although kittens and puppies can be fun and frisky, adopting an older animal means that the owner can often forgo the trials of potty and obedience training. Before buying or adopting a pet for an older adult, make sure that the animal is the appropriate size for the house and the owner. For example, a large affectionate pet can jump up and knock down an individual with balance and mobility problems.
Consider the benefits of pet ownership, as animals can be great companions and friends for older adults.